I thought a brief excerpt from Bustle’s ‘Sex IDK’ column talks to the heart of women on our day:
For the last couple of years the category ”Lesbians” has been the most searched term for all of US erotica, and quite a bit of online forums. This is not unexpected as this genre is the final expression of appreciation of the female form, beloved by both men and woman. But, drowned by the fantasy of girls liking girls, we often forget the actual girls that like girls.
The term sexual minority is widely politicized and has actual value when it comes to someone’s rights as a person. But in real life, in our everyday contacts, all of us are a minority. Everybody likes a narrow type of people that they are attracted to. What is important is how we can learn from each other. Then we should come (and cum) together in both love and camaraderie.
Understanding the real-life lesbians around us can make us appreciate both them and their fantasy counterparts even more. They can teach us things that our male friends just can’t. Also, straight men can offer them emotional stability and support any person needs in their quest to find love.
Finally, there is nothing wrong in enjoying the view or reading of two women getting it on. You getting off while watching or reading about two girls consummating the intimate act with each other is a-okay. Just write a review of the piece of art, if you enjoy the scenes so that they can make more.
I am a writer, not an author. I write about current affairs, social issues and developing lifestyles. A trained philosopher, I have been enthralled with the Existentialists for many years. I have not made up my mind regarding New Wave culture. Only time will tell if it is for real.
From and early age I felt Lesbian romance is a much underserved segment in the literary world, and in feature cinema, etc. It generally is presented as a male fantasy and it dehumanizes the people that are the characters in the work. The world is changing and to some degree the gap that existed 30 years ago is being filled.
My vision for this Blog, is to treat the subject with an open mind. It will be explored from many angles, and many opinions. The state of LBGT community in the early 21st century is expanding. This expansion is a bit lopsided however, as 3 times as many females are self identifying with the lesbian of bisexual life style. This has fascinated me for some time and except for some minor exploration on my part I have The blog will feature as many elements of the subject, from around the world. This blog has been a dream of mine for a very long time and hope you are not disappointed in the contents.
A huge Beatles Fan, and James Bond fan. I currently have become interested in music by Charlotte Gainsbourg and Kelsea Ballerini. I have a real liking for Kay Scarpetta, by Patricia Cornwell.
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